Time and chance happen to all things - King Solomon.

Everybody has a plan until you get punched in the face - Mike Tyson.

You Need To Embrace And Just Be Yourself Now

Introduction

Don’t you often have worries, doubts, and fears?
Sometimes you have this feeling of insecurity all around.
At other times, your heart just keeps pounding loudly.

The trepidation might be so strong.
The negativity may be so encompassing…
You may feel you could be happier if you were someone else.

The Grass Appears Greener on the Other Side

Do you think the grass is much greener on the other side?
Your experiences might make you feel so.
But, more often than not, you’d be wrong.

The person you envy could be more worried, more afraid,
or more insecure than you.

So, you think Bill has everything going for him?
What if he looks in the mirror and hates his teeth?
What if he detests his height?

What if Jane feels out of place among family and friends
because she thinks and acts differently?
What if she’s daily badmouthed because of a bad habit she struggles to overcome?

What if they receive a regular barrage of negative talk
from family, loved ones, friends, or associates?
Their self-esteem would plummet, wouldn’t it?

The Grass is no less Green on Your Side

It’s funny, isn’t it?
That you would envy another for beauty that is shallow;
the glamour that’s fleeting; riches that are ephemeral, or associations that are unstable.

Yet, these people look at you with envy, too.
They wish they could be as smart as you appear;
handle others skillfully as you do;
steer conversations confidently like you.

They wish they could do everything to switch places.
They simply wish to be as you are.

Isn’t it laughable?
That feeling of quiet desperation… that makes you wish to be somebody else.
It leads to a loss of self-esteem, self-respect, and confidence.
It dashes your hopes of ever striving to improve your situation in life.

Self-improvement is a Key to Sustained Happiness

What you envy in others is simply a perception.
And it’s not your reality.

Why wring your hands about what you don’t have?
Why agonize over who you can’t be?

Do you desire to have lovelier things?
Do you want to enjoy an awesome life?
Then, consult with trusted advisers or friends.
Let them suggest areas where you can improve, and how.

Ask questions.
Learn new things
Work out solutions.
Develop new skills.
And, become a much-improved version of your splendid self.

Oh… so, you have always been that way?
That doesn’t mean you should always remain like that.
Take action to improve yourself.
Open up new doors of experience.
Enter new areas of opportunities.
You will then be able to truly motivate, inspire, and provoke others to succeed.

When you engage in self-talk, eliminate regrets.
Concentrate and see yourself mentally as a first-class citizen.
Accept yourself for who and what you are.
And, love yourself.

Do you feel the need to compare yourself with another?
Consider this instead:
What and where were you?
What and where are you now?
What and where do you aspire to?
And, constantly make improvements in your life.

Conclusion
You, like many people, will often feel insecure.
That, however, shouldn’t condemn you to a life of sadness.
Accept and love yourself.
And you’ll be happy.

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Morning and Evening by Charles Spurgeon

Morning
"The kindness and love of God our Saviour." Titus 3:4

How sweet it is to behold the Saviour communing with his own beloved people! There can be nothing more delightful than, by the Divine Spirit, to be led into this fertile field of delight. Let the mind for an instant consider the history of the Redeemer's love, and a thousand enchanting acts of affection will suggest themselves, all of which have had for their design the weaving of the heart into Christ, and the intertwisting of the thoughts and emotions of the renewed soul with the mind of Jesus. When we meditate upon this amazing love, and behold the all-glorious Kinsman of the Church endowing her with all his ancient wealth, our souls may well faint for joy. Who is he that can endure such a weight of love? That partial sense of it which the Holy Spirit is sometimes pleased to afford, is more than the soul can contain; how transporting must be a complete view of it! When the soul shall have understanding to discern all the Saviour's gifts, wisdom wherewith to estimate them, and time in which to meditate upon them, such as the world to come will afford us, we shall then commune with Jesus in a nearer manner than at present. But who can imagine the sweetness of such fellowship? It must be one of the things which have not entered into the heart of man, but which God hath prepared for them that love him. Oh, to burst open the door of our Joseph's granaries, and see the plenty which he hath stored up for us! This will overwhelm us with love. By faith we see, as in a glass darkly, the reflected image of his unbounded treasures, but when we shall actually see the heavenly things themselves, with our own eyes, how deep will be the stream of fellowship in which our soul shall bathe itself! Till then our loudest sonnets shall be reserved for our loving benefactor, Jesus Christ our Lord, whose love to us is wonderful, passing the love of women.

Evening
"Received up into glory." 1 Timothy 3:16

We have seen our well-beloved Lord in the days of his flesh, humiliated and sore vexed; for he was "despised and rejected of men, a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief." He whose brightness is as the morning, wore the sackcloth of sorrow as his daily dress: shame was his mantle, and reproach was his vesture. Yet now, inasmuch as he has triumphed over all the powers of darkness upon the bloody tree, our faith beholds our King returning with dyed garments from Edom, robed in the splendour of victory. How glorious must he have been in the eyes of seraphs, when a cloud received him out of mortal sight, and he ascended up to heaven! Now he wears the glory which he had with God or ever the earth was, and yet another glory above all--that which he has well earned in the fight against sin, death, and hell. As victor he wears the illustrious crown. Hark how the song swells high! It is a new and sweeter song: "Worthy is the Lamb that was slain, for he hath redeemed us unto God by his blood!" He wears the glory of an Intercessor who can never fail, of a Prince who can never be defeated, of a Conqueror who has vanquished every foe, of a Lord who has the heart's allegiance of every subject. Jesus wears all the glory which the pomp of heaven can bestow upon him, which ten thousand times ten thousand angels can minister to him. You cannot with your utmost stretch of imagination conceive his exceeding greatness; yet there will be a further revelation of it when he shall descend from heaven in great power, with all the holy angels--"Then shall he sit upon the throne of his glory." Oh, the splendour of that glory! It will ravish his people's hearts. Nor is this the close, for eternity shall sound his praise, "Thy throne, O God, is forever and ever!" Reader, if you would joy in Christ's glory hereafter, he must be glorious in your sight now. Is he so?

TGIF..........

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